Cycle inconsistencies... a bit TMI... TTC #1

I've had the weirdest cycle I've ever had this go around. My last normal cycle was Feb 8-11. I usually have really bad cramps followed by heavy bleeding on day 1 then it eases up thru the next 3 days. My next expected AF was due April 8-11. Didn't show but I've been a few days late before, no biggie. Still to this day I haven't had my "normal" cycle. A week of light brown spotting in the morning April 1-6, a few random days of light pink to brown spotting, then a few consecutive days of a mix of light pink to brown spotting. Hubby and I did the naughty yesterday afternoon and there was some light bleeding after so I thought that was AF showing but this morning I wake up to no sign of her, no cramps this month either ... I'm not freaking out but any thoughts ladies?? Thanks!