DEVESTATED! 😔

So I had some random spotting about 4 days ago (which never happens) along with breast tenderness and headaches. I was SO convinced it was IB.... Then it went away two days ago. Did the BD last night, and now all of a sudden there is bleeding. My AF wasn't supposed to show until Wednesday of this coming week. I'm so heartbroken. 💔 I really hoped this time we got our little bundle of joy.....