Advise please !

I moved to San Antonio two months back . I am a home maker. My husband is away for work all day . Once back usually is so tired that sleeps early and I'm all day jus sitting doing nothing. I feel the need to have girl Frds. My nature is friendly , sensitive and kind. I do get hurt easily by people's attitude but I am fair and like to give people a chance as well . I try not to reach to. Conclusions or opinions too soon. I did try making Frds since I have moved to the new city but some how I feel I met all people with kids and I don't have any of my own. I am still ok and don't mind socializing with them. But some how since I joined these groups people have not been very welcoming in the common group chats . They keep chatting with each other but when I write something , no one bothers to reply or have a conversation with me. I have no friends here. I am trying to fit In but I feel I am not being respected enough. Should I still give this a try  and meet and socialize with these girl friends some more ? Or should I jus leave the common chat groups because I think they are ignoring me ? I feel insulted by their attitudes on the chat groups and I don't know what I should do . Help !