So ..ok I get it as a son you have to help your siblings and mom/dad..but when they start planning vacations on your husband's budget without him knowing and everyone esle moving on up..while we help his family all the time..its just getting to me..I dont know what to do..I have been thru alot with my hubs and just as I think ok..im done I keep in mind a relationship takes work..but ive been with him for over ten years . Two great kids and yet I feel like im still waiting for my turn for my family (my kids and I) to go on to better things. ...im just irritated..we just went to his brothers bday party and found out they are planing a wedding ..when my husband has asked for help in helping his family..it was the last straw..and now I find myself taking it out on my husband with the im so pissed off and fed up..I just dont care anymore...attitude..anyone in a similar boat ??