Thought I'd share this with you girls, I just had, what I think, is a brilliant idea.  I was running some errands today and we live right by a theme park, so as I was going past it, I saw the roller coasters and thought, looks like fun we should go sometime soon.  Then I thought, it will have to be two weeks from now as I am 1 dpo today.  So I thought well that will be something to look forward to if we don't get pregnant this month.  Then I thought that's brilliant! Every month we should have some activity planned that I can no longer do once I'm pregnant and if AF shows up that month, we go do it.  Kind of a small silver lining, to an other wise painful thing.  So I texted DH and he thinks it's a great idea, and we are going to come up with a list of things to do.  Hopefully we don't get through too many things on the list! ;)