Am I turning gay?

Question

I've been married to a man for a long time. But for the last couple years I've been fantasizing about being with women. Me and my husband have had threesomes before. But i want to have a 1 on 1 experience. I think about it all the time.

Answer

I've said it before, and I'll say it again - whether it's same sex or opposite sex, acting on those feelings would be considered cheating. Take your thoughts captive and don't get carried away.

Answer

You can't turn gay. You are or your aren't. Or you are just into both sexes. I think you should maybe talk to someone so you can work out your feelings. It's ok to fantasize about things , but do you want to act on those fantasies?

Answer

You can't turn gay. Are you still attracted to your husband? You might be bi or any other variation on sexuality. Sexuality isn't black and white.

Answer

Try talking to your husband. If you're open enough to have threesomes he's probably going to be okay with some one on one for you. But don't hide and lie, that's the worst thing to do.

Answer

It's possible you are gay and never really noticed. Are you still sexually attracted to your husband? Maybe you are bi? 
It's also possible that you are just really curious and its become a bit of an obsession. Maybe talk to your husband about it, he might be helpful. It will probably hurt him, so be easy on him, but he is still your partner. Either way, you are who you are, nothing wrong with that. Just don't go behind your husband's back

Answer

You don't "turn gay". This is completely normal behavior and desires, across species.

If you were gay, you wouldn't be interested in men in the first place. You're desires can change, and if you gave men up altogether you could call yourself that without second glances. If you're still into men you're called bi sexual.

Answer

All I can say is, if it makes you happy go for it! But if it was me I would tell my SO my feelings and intentions!

Answer

I suggest researching polyamory, pansexuality, and bisexuality. Give it some serious thought, then discuss what you've learned and how you feel with your partner.

Sexuality can be fluid over time, particularly for primate females. Being attracted to someone who is not your partner is totally normal, and loving someone who is not your parter is also possible.

Answer

Maybe Ur bisexual.....U like both men and women

Am I turning gay?

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey