Is it just me?

Question

I have been wondering this now for awhile, and I've started to do some research.  I've been having see for just over a year now and have yet to have an orgasm from it...I've  read a few places that some women have trouble reaching that point...so is that just me or is it really true? I'm starting to think there is something wrong with me. Any advice or input?

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Been there!!!! But it lasted more than two years. I could get close but never 'fall over'. Let me say that my husband was a virgin until we had sex. I had had sex before but nothing more than one entry so we were both inexperienced.So not like actual activity.  My husband did some research secretly to help me have a complete orgasmS. We tried different positions, more forplay, and putting pillows under my hips. None of it got me to reach an orgasm. He did more research and looked into sex toys... We were so embarrassed to think about using a vibrator... He was desperate and I was getting so aggravated that I didn't want sex because it would just disappoint me when I couldn't orgasm. However, after thinking about it and talking with him about how we felt about using one, we went to the novelty store in our twin and bought a tiny bullet. Still didn't work. Tried a vibrating "wand" and used it inside of me but nothing still. Then I did some research and looked into a hitachi wand. Bought a mini and OH MY GOSH!!!! I use it on my labia as we are having sex when I am ready to orgasm. The very first time had me in tears because all the stress and negativity just left my body. I released more than just physically. Best experience ever. So basically, don't be afraid to try new things when you are ready. It might take time to find the right thing but it's worth it! Going on two years being able to reach a complete orgasm now! I even had three in one session recently and that was the very first time having so many. One is my usual. But they are so forceful I tingle all the way to my toes. Good luck!!!

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I was with my husband for years before I had an orgasm, though sex was enjoyable I just never quite made it there.

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A lot of women never orgasm before becoming pregnant. My first true orgasm was when I wad like 6 months along with my first, then I only would if I were pregnant. With my current partner though it's rare to not orgasm.

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Its happening to me right it sucks but hopefully it will stop lol

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Very rarely can I come from penetration alone. I just get a hand in and stimulate my clit when I need to get over the edge. I was worried it would be a source of embarrassment when I started having sex, but my husband thinks it's hot. And when it's a choice between multiple orgasms or none, I'll choose touching myself every time.

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My husband and I were completely comfortable with each other and that helps. The emotional connection was important for us and it still is!

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Vaginal orgasms are hard to come by. Try clitoral stimulation, everyone can have one like that. Btw, your partner better start thinking about you in bed, not just himself

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