Advice please?

Question

I feel like since I've had my daughter I don't care much for my husband. My daughter is one and I put her before everything. She is the reason I wake up in the morning I live and breath for that little girl. I feel like I can take or leave my husband. If he were to leave I think I'd be ok with it. I'm 16 weeks pregnant now and I'm not sure if it's the hormones messing with my mind or not. Even after I had my daughter I felt this way. Is this normal? I do love my husband don't get me wrong but I don't feel like I care for him anymore. I feel like the only people I care about are my daughter and my unborn baby.

Answer

I think you and your husband need to take a trip. Away from your kids... Even if just for the night to reconnect... You don't grow old with your kids, you grow old with your husband. You need to work on your relationship so your kids can have a healthy example :) enjoy your night out!

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Yeah I think it is normal and yes hormonal.  All your hormones are telling you to put those babies first (nessisary for the survival of our species)  The hormones will wear off a bit and your view of your husband will return (esspecially when you watch him caring for your little one, nothing looks hotter then my man carrying my sleeping baby)

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So I'm not sure if it's normal but I was the same way. I think it's probably mostly hormones. It might help to write down all of the reasons you loved your husband in the beginning. Try and remember all of the good things and find ways to strengthen your relationship based on those reasons.

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