1st attempt - FAIL

Just had my blood test yesterday which revealed that I'm not pregnant after the fresh transfer. We were only able to freeze 1 embryo and I'm very worried that we'll lose it in the thaw process.
Really in need of some strength right now. The #'s have not been in our favor this whole process. 10 eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized, 3 on day 5 with only 1 mature to implant and 1 frozen on day 6.
Ladies whose 1st attempt failed and the frozen took, how many months did you wait between cycles, if any?
Any ladies out there have success with a single thaw & implant?