Best Birth control? Help

Tiffany • Christian. Mother of 3. 3 living and 1 angel. 8 years together married 5.
My husband and I just lost our daughter 2 weeks ago ( I was 21 weeks 3 days)
We have 2 kids already, not sure after the loss of our daughter of we want anymore kids. 
I have had mirena ( I HATE it, it cause severe pain, cyst, and tried to expell itself)
Pills I can never rember to take, the patch made me a hormonal bitch, and the depo shot caused me to have no period for over 6 months after I stopped taking it, I had to take medicine to start it back up, and then after I got my periods back it was super clotty.