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So last week i found out that my husband is been talking to a girl ( coworker) we had a big fight.. He said that she is just a friend. Were being together for 11 years, now he said that there is nothing wrong to have female friends, and same for me that i can have male friends. I love my husband and i want us to be together for ever, i know that sometimes we have to make changes, in order to stay together and be happy. I told him ok thats fine. I am willing to accept something that i am not 100% happy to do but i love him. What would you do??

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That's a toughy, I guess everyone is different. For me it would depend on how I found out about their friendship and if it was hidden at all. I know that my SO would not put himself in a situation that I wasn't comfortable with, and vice versa. Just keep communication open and honest between you both and don't be afraid to tell him how you feel, don't ignore your intuition

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I went through the same thing except my husband didn't erase the messages and showed them to me. He also hid it from me because he knew I would be livid and was afraid of my reaction. Anyways, I realized that as much as I wanted to have things my way, it wasn't fair to him. I love him and therefore need to trust him. A healthy compromise for both of us meant he could have female friends but he can't go out one on one with them cause that to me is more like a date. The minute I stopped worrying about him having female friends, I felt better too because I don't have to think about it, I trust him and won't check up on him unless he really gives me a reason to and thankfully he hasn't.

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