After you have your baby is it really that bad ?

Is it really as bad as people say it is ? ( If you deliver vaginally ) Both my parents and my in laws make it seem as if after I give birth ima be so weak they talk about me needing help to go to the bathroom and I just think thats a little weird I mean if it does happen then okay but I want to know if you ladies think its true ? 
I have friends that have had their babies and ive never heard them complain about things like that they seem perfectly fine. This is my first baby so what would I know right ? But still that seems a lil too much . I know if you have a c - section then yeah I understand that but for the girls that deliver vaginally is this true ? 

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