Struggling with me gender?

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About a month ago I came out as gender fluid. I've always known I was bisexual but sometimes I feel like I'm just more of a boy?

Lately I've been struggling internally with my gender. I feel like I may be transgender female to male. I'm engaged and have been with my fiancé for going on 4 years. When I mentioned it to him he said its "Hard enough dealing with me thinking I'm gender fluid.

What do I do? Who can I talk to? How do I find myself...?

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Sounds to me like your not ready to be engaged.. I would be single for a while and just try to find yourself, travel some and do what you need to do! Your only 18! Be free like a bird honey!

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You need to find you. And that may be hard for your fiance. And it may be hard but you may need to take a break if he cannot be supportive.

There is the Trans hotline which is 1-877-565-8860 and the GLBT aka hay les Bian bisexuals transgender hotline which is 1-888-843-4564.

I know it is a hard situation but call and speak to the people on the hotline. There will also probably be some community resources if you search enough online.

I hope it all works out for you and you find the you that you feel most comfortable with. No matter which gender that may be.

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First off, fiancé isn't supportive...that's never good. There are anonymous phone numbers, there are forums, plenty of ways to find support

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I just wanted to offer my love and support. ❤️ I consider the LGBT community my family, and if you need anything or want to talk I'd be happy to give you my kik or something. ❤️ ☺️

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The comments about the fiancé not being supportive - I understand where he is coming from. Consider your significant other - husband, boyfriend, whatever - told you he felt like he should've been born a woman. Would it be so easy for you? For me, no. I'm not a lesbian. Yes, I fell in love with him, but not as a woman. It impresses me more when the non-trans partner immediately accepts who their lover is. 
To the OP: if you feel like you should've been born male and your fiancé can't deal with that, that's okay. You will find someone who does. Seek out the trans-support groups mentioned by other commenters. There isn't anything wrong with you. Best of luck.

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You could try to find a counselor that deals mainly with LGBT people and talk to them. That way they could help you understand what you're feeling and you'd have someone to talk with openly and honestly without fear of judgment or shame? :)

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If you're worried, it's completely natural to be gender fluid and still favour one gender over the other.

Do you have any close friends that you could confine in your confusion? It would definitely be best to stay in company with those who you know are going to understand and support you through your journey. 
Maybe you could find a LGBTQA group online and ask some transgender people how they felt prior to their transition?

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First of all, I wish your fiancé could be supportive, that's a bit odd he's not. Second, you should talk to a doctor who knows more of this, I think it'd be best to get advice from someone who studies this so at least you know what you're leaning into. After, don't rush nor force yourself for quick results! I think you should focus on yourself, focus in finding who you really want to be, that's when you find out who you really are. Good luck!

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Good luck!

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