We just found out my father in law has prostate cancer :-/ we don't know how serious yet, he won't seen the oncologist until May 13th. But now I'm so stressed for my husband and I know he is stressed but the military taught him to hold in the fear so now I know he won't say anything if it bothers him. My daughters at least know him, but I'll be so sad if my soon to be born son doesn't really get to :( I know I shouldn't be thinking the worst. I have never really know someone close to me who's had cancer or been around while they dealt with it.  I'm sorry I just needed to rant I guess.