Is this serious, what to do?

Question

My baby's god father has recently been coming around when my husband is not home. (Working) he just pops up without texting or calling and says lunch time come outside. So I go out side with my lil one. He stays for about 30 or so minutes. But lately he's been roaming with his eyes. It is starting to make me uncomfortable. He looks down at my thighs and starred up and down at me. At first I didn't notice it but yesterday I did and told my husband. He said he's been noticed that! He has been texting me all hours of the day and night! Normally we barley speak! What should I do! Should I be worried about this?

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I would tell him that he's making you uncomfortable and cut him off. Tell him only to come around when your hubby is home!

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Yea definitely listen to your gut. Try to avoid him as much as possible. Close that door shut. He's trying to walk thru it.

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If he's making you feel uncomfortable then don't put yourself in that position and stop talking to him and seeing him. To me it sounds like he is interested in you and that is so disrespectful because he knows you have a husband.

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Cut him off
!!!

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I would have a talk with him and say that you would like him to start coming over when your husband is home and to not show up without calling. If he still does that I would pretend I wasn't home. That's a really crappy situation

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I would start by firmly telling him to call and ask if he can come over, that it's not acceptable to just show up. If he follows that then you can easily tell him "not a good time, but you can swing by after Xpm on Y day" (when your husband will be home). Makes it easier to severely limit his visits and only have him over when you're comfortable with it & hubby is home. If that doesn't stop him from showing up unannounced, then I would just come out & tell him that it makes you uncomfortable, and so on, making it clear you don't appreciate his actions. And if it still keeps happening, i would escalate to threatening to call the cops if he continues, and following through if he doesn't heed your warning.

Is this serious, what to do?

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