Bartholin gland again!!! Tmi

This is the 3rd time I've had the cyst :/ its annoying and painful. Not as painful as the first time but still gets sore fast. They won't do anything about it Until it gets bigger and there is a head for them to drain it. Ugh gross 🙈 I've done sitz baths but it's not working. Not having sex either so idk what keeps it coming back!! Any clue??