Or even started! Last night was an important day on the calendar and we needed to bd. He couldn't even get it up fully! He kept trying and I finally told him to stop. I cried afterwards. It was so depressing. I'm taking medication to help us get pregnant and he can't get it up?! I'm trying to be a supportive wife but honestly I'm feeling some type of way. I can't imagine what else I can do, I've tried it all (except the dirty dirty 50 shades type of crap) and nothing seems to help. Is there a polite way of suggesting viagra? I just don't think I can continue this way.