My husband and I have decided to stop trying for our first baby until I can lose weight. We've been trying for 11 months with no luck. I was on the deli shot for 4 years but stopped it 2 years ago. In order to be what the doctor says is an ideal weight, I need to lose 100 pounds. As hard as it is to quit right now, I know it's something I have to do in order to have a sweet baby someday!