Frustrated with the SO

So yesterday was our anniversary. We had a fabulous day hiking and touring historic Lexington. We had a great dinner and stopped in the way home for a bottle of wine. We got one of the large bottle so we could drink and I could use the rest in the kitchen later. Anyway, we got to drinking and dancing and getting intimate. He drank about 4 glasses of wine and got really loose. Then he started getting depressed. He couldn't get hard after so much alcohol in a somewhat empty stomach. The. He starts talking about how he is such a disappointment and he can't satisfy his woman and pretty much just starts saying what he was thinking and feeling. This is the first time he has just broke down and told me everything he was feeling. Then he got sick and wasn't really able to talk. I cuddled down next to him and we went on to sleep. I had to work this morning and he didn't. Normally I set the alarm for 20 min before I actually have to get up so we can cuddle and talk a little before we have to get the morning going. This morning he threw my arms off of him, got up and immediately went to the living room and sat down in the recliner. I got up and went and sat in his lap and asked him what was wrong. He wouldn't look at me. Just said that he was fine. I asked him if when I got home at 5 of we could talk about last night. He looked at me very coldly and said there is nothing to talk about. Normally he is the one pushing me to open up. If it seems our roles are reversed this week.