Marriage

My fiancé and I have been engaged for a little over 2 years now and I have done zero wedding planning due to financial reasons, and also, not knowing what the heck I'm doing or where to begin....I want to actually start planning but still have a semi- tight budget. I also honestly have such a huge family and barely talk to or see any of them, and I have just a few select friends. And my fiancés family...well it's another story. He doesn't see or talk to many of them. Should I even bother having a big wedding? I would love to in a dream world if money weren't a factor, but I also don't see the point. Why share my big day with people I barely ever see or talk to...?