Is it wrong for me to say

To my SO that I don't want anyone coming to the hospital until the day after I give birth/later that night if early? 
I'm going to be getting a section and plus my partner works away so will have to travel back when I go into labour so my Mum is my birthing partner. 
I want a chance for him to meet her and myself to actually get over the c section a little before everyone all comes in but everyone including him is making me feel horrible for it.