Issues in bed...

My partner has a baby on the way, one just born, and he and I have had 2 pregnancy scares.. his sex drive is very low now because he's afraid to get anyone pregnant. When we do have sex, it's on his terms and when he wants it (which I'm not complaining about)

However, he always finishes first, and never checks too see if I'm done. The other nighy, he did check to see if I was done and I told him truthfully no. I like sex alot, and if it were up too me we could do it all night long..

How do I get him too be more attentive to me?