People can be cruel

I suffered from an early loss last month, after completing my first ivf cycle. An acquaintance of mine (who is also struggling with infertility) sent me a really horrible text the other day. She said that I'm a liar for saying that I had a miscarriage, because it was a chemical pregnancy and I have no right to act like I have fertility issues, because "one failed ivf cycle doesn't mean you have real problems" why would one woman badger another woman about losing a baby? I'm lost on this.