Should you tell the new guy you're dating about the sexual things you've done?

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I'm not actually dating a new guy, I'm actually 100% single, but I want to know for the future. I've only dated one guy previously and we did everything but have actual intercourse. So I still consider myself a virgin, just a semi experienced one. I'm just wondering if I should tell the next guy I date what I've done. Do I give specifics? Or do I not tell him anything? I'm so clueless! And the fact that I'm 21 and still a virgin is a problem on its own because I'm kind of embarrassed to tell any future guy because I'm scared he'll want someone more experienced.

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It's not his buisness I don't know about my husbands sexual past I don't never asked and he has never asked me we both new we were not virgins

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And as far as a guy wanting someone more experienced. If that's the case, he doesn't deserve you! The fact that you're a virgin should not change any feelings he has towards you.

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I wouldn't tell them specifics. My husband know I've slept with other people but that's IT

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Make sure he at least knows your experience level,  be communicative,  make sure he knows what you are comfortable with and where your boundaries are,  what you are interested in trying etc.  Don't do something (like sex or anal)  just because he assumes you are experienced and you are too embarrassed to tell him you are a Virgin.

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Do not be embarrassed about being a virgin at 21!!!
It is a personal choice and any guy who has a problem with it, isn't the guy for you.

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what No!!!!! a dude would fully respect that u have saved yourself why would anyone think that's a problem???? 
and if he doesn't pfft put the door! x

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I say don't tell him shit how about surprising him with some things u do know it's not always good to tell what u can do its better to jus show em so that he thinks in his mind oh ok I never knew this if that's what u meant

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When you feel like you can trust him and feel comfortable enough, tell him. He deserves to know. I went through the same thing recently with this guy I'm seeing. We have been getting close recently and I felt the need to tell him. Turns out he kind of already figured that I was a virgin. (I'm also 21) but also, he thought it was a great thing that I haven't been sexual with any guy. As for the details..if he asks then tell him but if not then don't. It's not really necessary.

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I'm 26 and was a virgin until a few months ago. The boyfriend asked if I was and I told him and that was pretty much it.

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I told my current bf that I was still a virgin,  and he was far from a virgin,  he thought it was fine, and I was 22. He now tells me that he actually likes the fact he is my first and only

Should you tell the new guy you're dating about the sexual things you've done?

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