Last night my husband said that he was doing I the dishes because he didn't want them to be done half assed. I do dishes 3-4 times a day when he is at work so it really upset me when he said that. My kitchen is so small that I don't even have any counter space to even cook on because the drying rack is taking up the largest space. He also got mad over a cake... I am really trying not to flip out because we are both quitting smoking but why would he say those things?