Big or small penis

My man is like insanely packing I'm 29 and I've only been with 3 men when I first starting have sex I thought a average penis 7-8 inches was perfect for me but then I got with my man and my whole sex life changed he is 10 inches soft and about 12-13 inches hard!!.. our sex life is crazy I really don't think if we broke up I could go back to small or average penis.. what do you women like? Be honest and please don't be offended by my question we are all grown