Struggling with lack of intimacy with husband

Julie
So it's been two weeks since the start of my miscarriage. I have to wait at least another week at my follow up appt to find out when my husband and I can have sex again. The dr is worried I'm still a bit dialated after passing the sack. 
But I'm really struggling. I feel so distant from my husband. I just want to feel close and intimate with him. I know he's been struggling too but it kills me that he seems to flinch every time I touch him. 
Did anyone experience anything similar after their miscarriage?