Drs visit after miscarriage

Hey I am waiting to hear back from the dr when I should come in for an appointment.  Last time this happened I got all flustered and was sad and remembered everything I wanted to ask after I left.  This time I plan on writing down my questions.  I want to know what to do and how to move forward so I can heal.  What are some questions I should ask so we have a plan in place for when we ttc again?