No dilation!?

Lei
I'm 40w + 3d pregnant. I'm fed up. I have been having contractions on and off since Thursday night, they will just start...then get heavier and frequent... And after about 2/3 hours they'll just completely stop. Today I was examined as my contractions were becoming unbearable, and apparently my cervix is still long, thick and closed! Will I ever have this baby? 😓😓