Did I marry the wrong person?

I've always wanted big things for my life. I wanted to work in the intercity and help youth foster and adopt. I loved my single life it was crazy adventurous and full of travel and life. I said I didn't want to pursue furtility medication because I always wanted I adopt.  I told my then boyfriend that I wanted this to continue when we got married. And he said. "I'll help all your dreams come true we will work together to make them happen." 
Then just a week into our marriage, after I agreed to move out of my city to his small town. Give up a big chunk of my dreams and goals he says we should pursue furtility. I knew it was important to him and I love kids so I said we would look into it. 
I've literally given up everything changed everything I've ever wanted to make him happy. I have leaned to be happy. But now he keeps saying things like see I knew what you wante.  I knew you never really wanted those things. Or the most hurtful of all is I thought you would just change what you wanted and want to stay home and cook and clean with your REAL children!! As if adoption isn't real children. 😳 really questioning if I got tricked into this whole thing. I was compleaty open about what I wanted. He waited until we where married to tell me he wanted the complete opposite.