What would you do?(Advice)

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So for the past year and a half my husband has been verbally and physically abusive, he's also been cheating. Just recently I went home to visit family and needless to say I cheated on him. Now I'm pregnant and I know it's not my husbands. I cant decide if I should keep the baby, do adoption or get an abortion. I don't think that my husband can have more children (we have a 4 yr old) so I thought we could keep it and he could raise it as his own. He's not having that. The sperm donor doesn't want anyone to raise his child but he's in and out of trouble with the law. I really don't want an abortion, if anything I'd do adoption. But it's either have an abortion or lose my family. Advice please?

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No I feel like if you are willing to get rid of the baby then why aren't you willing to get rid of the man that's abusing you. Get rid of his ass and raise your baby end of story.

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There are children involved! Keep your baby and take your current child and get away from that abusive man. Stay home w your family.

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Honestly, no one on here can even help make this question. It's really all up to you.

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I agree with the other ladies. It's about time you end that relationship. You don't deserve to be disrespected and abused. If he truly loved you he wouldn't hurt you. You also have to look at the example you are potraying to your child, that it's ok to be in an abusive relationship and that is how love is expressed. Young minds are very impressionable, would you want this kind of relationship for your child in the future? It's time to move on my love, you are worth more and you deserve more. Xoxoxo

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Obviously u need to get out an abusive relationship. What I would do with the strength that I have is get out the relationship, and raise the child I conceived. U were woman enough to conceive then u should raise it.

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And I mean stay w your parents , get away from both those men. Please make better decisions for yourself in the future

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I'll take ur baby  don't kill it

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You thought you all could keep it & he could raise it as his own? Why would you even bring another child into that situation, when what you really need to do is get you & your 4 year old out of the situation.

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An abusive relationship needs to end...then re-evaluate your situation.

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My advice is that you leave him and THEN decide what to do about the baby! If he's abusive toward you, it's only a matter of time before he turns on the kids, AND he is their example of how a man should behave and how he should treat his wife! That's not good! So your son will follow that example, or your daughter will end up with a guy like him. Do you really want that???

What would you do?(Advice)

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