Home versus hospital

Helena
So the hubs and are are TTC. We got into the discuss of where the baby would be born even though we haven't gotten out BFP yet. I have a child from a previous relationship and had her in the hospital. I hated it! The nurses wouldn't let me out of the bed even though I had no epidural, I was told if I continued to get out of the bed they would strap me to it and when I had to use the bathroom I wasn't permitted to get out of the bed. Just an overall bad experience. So I'm all for a home or birthing center birth. The hubs is totally against anything other than a hospital birth. He says a hospital is safer and if something goes wrong the staff is there to help. Do you ladies have a preference or had experiences that would make you want to have your baby at home????