Sex and marriage

Chrissy
OK so I'm recently married back in March . I have been with my husband for 4 years . well recently every time we make love he wants nothing to do with me after. He will go watch TV or get on his phone and play games. I have tried talking to him and telling him how I feel and he saids no need to and drops it. He is also not listening to me about anything I'm starting to release all our talks is about cars or whatever he wants to talk about. Today for example we are kid free all night and all day. He asked what I wanted to do I said go to mall and walk around and maybe a movie . we went to movie but he picked it and I didn't have say in it. I told him I would make dinner at home for us and he went to burger king instead. I feel like we have nothing in common anymore. Plus he has my ex best friend on his Facebook and pinterest and I have not talked to her sense our wedding rehearsal because she brought a friend along who was taking over my wedding sit up so I flipped. Well today he knee my ex friend had left her husband and who she was with now. I am trying to lose weight and feel better about myself but all he does is point out skinny people and make no time for me but sex and when he wants a damn back scratch. How should I handle it?