D&C vs medical management advice?

Liz
My worst fear was confirmed last night: at 11wks 3days, we found out that our little baby had died at 8wks 3days.
​I now have to decide if I want to have the medication and pass the baby 'naturally' (which is only 80%effective), or if I want a D&C. I'm leaning towards the D&C because I just want it over, it also seems like you bleed for about a week after, but the medication can take 3 weeks, and may end up in a D&C anyway. 
​Advice? What is the procedure/recovery like for each? 
​My first pregnancy ended in an early natural miscarriage. This is my second. I feel like there's no point trying again.