when people tell you not to think about it!!!!

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I have been trying to conceive since March 13,2014 and I'm getting very discouraged. people always tell not to think about it,IT will happen when you least expect it. well I'm sick and tired of waiting I'm tired of the tears and the worry that something is wrong with me and that it will never happen. I'm tired of af every month. BUT how in the hell am I supposed to just not think about it when I want it so bad? I get so frustrated with women that are on drugs and can't even properly provide for a child and they have 4 or more kids like why  does this have to be so hard for me😭😭😭

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I used to think that was a load of bullshit. Until 6/16. 
Me and my finace had been trying for 13 months but the last month we hadent put alot of though into it.. I was taking opks but I was focused more on my job and my finace. We wanted a baby so badly but we just stopped putting so much thought into it because after 13 months it felt like it was never going to happen for us. I got a + opk on the 28th, 29th, and 30th of May. We baby danced one time throughout these positives. We didnt think another thing about it.
Then I had a usual routine of taking and opk and hpt when I got home from work everyday and when I took them I swore I saw a line on the hpt.. I thought I was just seeing things but I went to get a better test anyway. I came home took it and it was positive. I couldn't believe it. Now I believe thee saying when you stop trying is when it will happen. Kind of like a watched pot never boils! Good luck! It will happen for you! Sending baby dust✨

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People always told me not to think about it and, my favorite, once you quit trying it'll happen for you. People are annoying.

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I am right there with u. I try not to b bitter n hard about it. But it is absolutely ridiculous n unfair. We have been trying for almost 2 years. We both have good jobs, our own home, own our vehicles, we can care for a baby. N it just doesn't happen. Month after month of disappointment. I know that when it does happen for us we will b so happy, and I try to always stay positive. I like to think that when it does happen for everyone who is struggling with it, we will appreciate it more and be more grateful. Good luck to u.

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I feel exactly the same way.  July will be one year that I have been off birth control and the end of July will be 9 months since I MC our first. People tell more to not think about it but it is so hard.

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I know exactly how u feel hun as I am on the phone rite I am only crying sometimes I feel just to give up too.i am three days late with my period and I tested but it's all negative

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I knkw exactly how you feel, I just stopped letting people know that I was even trying so I didn't have to hear it. I don't think they know what else to say. They feel like they are being encouraging but it doesn't feel encouraging when it just isn't happening. It took my hubby and I several years. I found that changing my diet and starting an exercise routine was helpful.

when people tell you not to think about it!!!!

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