Ticked Off

I'm mostly venting here but my husband and I just had a baby three weeks ago and even though we have to wait three more weeks to have sex I have been feeling very lonely and frisky when I'm around him. He treats me like I have a plague though. I've given him pleasure several times and the other night I was kissing all over his neck/etc. and he just started laughing! I could've cried. To top things off he said he'd quit smoking and I saw him light one up this AM. So I haven't spoke with him today. I'm just so frustrated! Am I just being mostly hormonal or does he sound off?