Does this make me shallow?

okay so I started dating this guy about a month ago... Let's call him Aaron. I feel like he is a major douche boat. We were having a get together with some good friends at one of my girlfriends houses. I asked her if I could take a shower when I got there because I felt gross from my soccer game. When I went to get in the shower, Aaron was in there butt naked... I turned my head because I didn't want to look and left the bathroom and just decided not to take a shower. Later that night, he was pulling on my clothes and saying, "baby. I really care about you. Lets take this to the next level." Knowing what he meant and being the smart girl I am I said no. I knew he just wanted in my pants. Well he was persistant so I left. A few days later, I found out that my best friend was in icu from a critical car accident. He told me he wanted to be there for me but I didn't really want to be around anyone so I told him that and didn't get a response. A couple hours later, Aaron showed up at my house. I was confused, but I let him in and he sat in my room with me while I was crying. He said that I should think about something else which I thought was pretty insensitive. He left and came back with alcohol. I told him I didn't want any and that I was going to sleep. He ended up staying over and in the middle of the night woke me up to have sex. I didn't want to but I thought he would leave me alone if I let him. Welp it was the size of half of my pinky AND the condom fell of his penis... I had enough so I broke up with him but now apparently some of our friends are saying I'm shallow and that I only broke up with him bc of his penis. They said its shallow bc apparently he was in a boating accident and something happened to his penis?! 😂 sorry I can't help it. He was a douchebag. Good looks don't mean shit