Am I overreacting?

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Hello ladies. I am 7 weeks today. My SO and I decided not to share the news yet. Last night we went out for food with some friends. Just about everyone ordered a drink except for me. And the girl sitting next to me says "wait you don't have a drink . Are you pregnant ?" 
THEN she puts her drink in front of me and is like prove that you're not pregnant . And she pulls out her camera like "this is my home pregnancy test drink it and prove you're not pregnant ."
I felt like it was so rude and disrespectful to do that and not funny at all. So I decided to stay home today (4th of July) just to avoid that type of situation again. Am I overreacting???

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Not overreacting at all! I can't believe people think it's any of their business if someone else is pregnant, and think it's ok to force an announcement like that. I would have been really upset. Once you do announce you should talk to her about it if she's someone you see regularly.

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She's a bitch! Omg that was too much. What is she like 15 years old?! She should NOT be considered a friend. Stupid. Smh. You didn't deserve that.

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I would had poured the drink on her!! You are not overreacting at all.

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Eh - she was prob just trying to get a reaction out of you or be funny with everyone elese around. I would say your on antibiotics and can't drink. I'm going on a trip next week and not everyone knows so that's gonna be my excuse.

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I think that was extremely rude of her to be so pushy! I would probably just stick to the antibiotics story until you're ready to tell the news. Some people are so inconsiderate of others!

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No, I think that was uncalled for and rude of her to force you to announce/ admit it when you're not ready yet. I agree with saying you're on a medication/ antibiotic or you don't feel well/ were just too sick to have a drink.

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Honestly I had the same issue almost,  I sucked up the straw abs put my tongue on the end so I wouldn't actually get any,  then I went to the bartender and explained the situation so he made me an oj and grenadine drink.  That girl was completely out of line! I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

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Soooooo rude!!!

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The antibiotics answer is a good one to remember! Or- I say you drank too much am last week and need a cleanse. Or, since she's being so insensitive, throw it right back and tell her you don't like to drink what hookers drink with a wink.

That was really rude of her whether she was trying to be funny or not. It's not her news to tell. It's yours. You get to decided when to tell, not her. My husband's boss just outed us by looking at all the dr appts Derek has taken. Luckily nobody heard what he said-- but what a dick move!

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We were keeping it a secret as well, and are managing quite well. However, I did HAVE to tell a couple people due to a similar situation. They were being very pressuring- just being themselves, lol so I just told them. Thankfully they have been trying for a while and so were very understanding and are well aware of the risks ect. I was only 5 weeks when that happened! I'm not 8w1d and managing to keep it from everyone else successfully!

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