TTC Talk Advice

Me and my boyfriend were not ttc when I got pregnant but we were so happy when it happened and when I had the miscarriage we were devastated. He told me he didn't want to ttc and wanted to "just let it happen" but after my miscarriage I wanted to feel like I had control over my body so after I got my first period I sat him down for a negotiation. I told him to just give me one month of really trying and using opks and he agreed. If I didn't get pregnant that month we would just let it happen. So I used opks and got pregnant after my first period! Try hearing him out and listen to why he's hesitant to try and then try to negotiate with him. Good luck!