This is my 5th baby and everytime my MIL in the room when I had my girls well this is going to be my last baby for a long time well through my whole pregnancy I been saying how I don't want her in the room cause she goes around telling everyone that she has the right to be in there cause she seen her daughter two boys and she's going to be in there for her daughter son who's due in October and cause she seen all my girls born too and it's like this is our first boy and I want to experience just me and him she tells my husband that she doesn't care what I say she's going to be in there and I'm just thinking like this lady crazy and I told my husband when I go into labor I'm not telling no one and that we are turn are phones off is that wrong of us to do? She's trying to put a guilt trip on us say how mean and wrong we are to do this to her and she's never going to forgive for doing this to her