Cut me a break doc!!!

Kayla • Expecting baby girl due November- IVF #3 FET
Went in today with the hopes of sperm banking, and doing a uterine scope to check endometrium, ovary size, uterine size, genetic testing etc. 
We are dealing with male factor (low motility)
Our first semen analysis said 5% motility and 39 mil sperm 85% good morphology. 
Today- 5mil sperm, 0 motility. 
And we have no idea what is causing it to go from bad to HOLY SHIT in two months. 
We have to have a huge discussion about what to do next. Doctor said "donor sperm" and I just lost it. Uncontrollable ugly crying commended after that.