Thinking about not useing condoms and just the pill and pull out method ??

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I cant feel anything when we use condoms and this is my first person ive ever had sex with and im his first too we have had sex before many time during our relationship....  but ive never been able to cum through vaginal sex while useing a condom ....ive never cum at all .... 
My friend is on the pill and they dont use one and he just pulls out or puts it in her somewhere else lol...
But im I stupid for wanting to  use just the pill ? 
Also what are those gels you squeeze in ur vag that kill sperm ? Are they good ? Where can I get them? Do they work?

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As a labor and delivery nurse I see a lot of people who got pregnant on the pill. Yes it's 99.9 percent effective when used correctly (at the exact same time daily and no other interfering drugs) but a lot of people don't. So it's still possible to become pregnant. Also it doesn't prevent std's so using a condom is wise no matter how faithful you think your bf is. It's not a good idea to try to CONVINCE someone to not use a condom if they want to especially if it makes him feel safer.

On the other hand it's not unheard of to have never had an orgasum thru penetration alone especially in the first few years of being sexually active. Some women don't orgasum their whole lives thru penetration alone. I suggest figuring yourself out first by making yourself O and then teaching him how it's done after.

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If you use the pill you shouldn't need to buy any gel or pull out. The pill protects against pregnancy up to 99.9 % I think? But the pill won't stop you from getting STDS etc, so I'd make sure that you knew 100% he was clean. You don't want to ruin your life with something that could've been prevented.

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While taking the pill you shouldn't need any gel or spermicide or anything at all! When taken correctly it's up to 99% effective! If you are really concerned about the possibility of getting pregnant though even on the pill you could have him pull out as well.

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If your on the pill then why do you need to pull out and use gels? Your taking contraception for a reason.. To not get pregnant..

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I always used the pill and pull out method and never got pregnant. You should be good. Just take your pill on the same time every day!

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Just so you know. There's a reason it's rated at 99.9%. That's how I'm here. Pleasantly planned surprise for my parents I was.

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I was on the pill from 17- 24. No scares. No problems.

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My doctor asked me if I knew what doctors called people who used the pull out method. I said what. He said parents! Pre-cum is usually undetected and is just as potent. Be careful and good luck :)

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We just had our second baby and I haven't had my postpartum check up yet so we are using condoms. Condoms make me feel as though I wasn't sleeping with my husband. It just didn't feel the same. I told him he had to take it off. For now it's the pull out method and calendar method for us. Idk anyone else experience this?

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We used condoms and bc the first 4 years of our marriage because we weren't ready to be parents. Your best bet is a condom but plenty of people use the pill and are fine! Also some women are physically unable to orgasms through penetration alone. Try playing with your clitoris during sex. That's how I achieve orgasms and they're amazing!

Thinking about not useing condoms and just the pill and pull out method ??

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