Advice and comfort

My boyfriend was arrested on Tuesday because he violated his parole, he has to be there for 45 days. I'm really sad because I really don't want him to be there and it's killing me. I haven't heard from him since Tuesday and I have no one to talk to, to tell how I'm feeling. Has anybody gone through this? If yes how long does it take to hear from him? And even if not I could really use some encouraging words😔😢 I can't stop crying