Female orgasms

Christina • If I cannot dance, no I shall not be apart of your revolution. Professional hairbrush singer & mirror dancer.
I have only allowed myself to be, "comfortable" with one man while being sexually involved with out of everyone I've had sexual relations with. Whom is my fiancé now and I am actually in love. Has anyone else experienced this? Having to be comfortable enough with someone to make yourself? 
I don't feel like I'm going through the motions anymore. 
Is there any other ways to obtain an O easier than thus? Or is it really just all I'm our heads ladies?
Xoxo Chrissy