Husband..opinions are hurtful

My husband constantly gets angry if I wear makeup that is "too much" for him. I don't wear half as much makeup as most women do. I don't even wear eyeliner. I talked to him in passing about dying my hair a burgundy brown again and he told me it will look like a stripper and went off on me for 2 hours about how fake I am and how one day Ill even ask him about plastic surgery and that I am too fake and seeking attention always. He says things like this even if I wear a dress that goes above my knee. I never show clevage anymore. I did when we first started dating but since we married he changed my wardrobe. How do I take control of this? And not feel bad for how I am? I just want to be loved how I am... If I want makeup on or if i don't. If I want my nails red or natural. :(