How to deal with a boyfriend who only thinks of himself?

Natasha
It's been 9 months. Early stages were fine but now it's like me, myself and I. Everything that has to come out of his mouth is "me me me me". 
"I don't like having sex that way"
"I only get horny when you show me that you're really into it, that way I can get to you after"
"Make me, my cup of coffee"
"It depends on my mood, for how I act around you" 
" I don't like having sex with your vagina, there's just something about the grip of a hand"
- with that one I was like wtf. With sex, I'm a giver naturally. But I also like receiving. But when you spend so much time and love trying to get them satisfied, only to have them want to finish right away and not do anything to you... is a bitch move. He only thinks about himself getting off, when it comes to me "I take too long, let's get it over with".
I don't know how to handle this anymore.