No job since grad...bf calls me lazy

I graduated this past May with a Bachelor of Business Administration. It was a long and hard battle. I've been looking high and low for a job, but I haven't had any luck. My boyfriend called me lazy and keep saying I should have found a job by now. The way he said it made me feel upset...so upset that I feel I've wasted 4 years of my life with him. First he would say I've gained too much weight while I was in school and if I want to get hired, I need to lose it. He said I make him look bad.