Pregnant and alone

Krystal
The father of my child and I broke up at 18 week into my pregnancy I've been feeling hurt and alone because I've never known a woman to go through something like this on her own every time I call its was always an agreement now we are able to talk without yelling but he said forget about us ever being together again all because I hurt his feelings it hurts me to the core to see him now taking pictures with other girls it hurts so much the fact I have to do this alone with him acting they way he is I don't know what to do or how to cope please anything would help
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Br

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It's a sucky feeling. Men are stupid sometimes and come around when they're ready. Sometimes they don't. With your emotions already going crazy I know it can hurt, but you just have to keep yourself busy. God chose YOU to take on such a beautiful, rewarding task. Your nugget needs you more than him. Focus on you and baby, he obviously isn't worthy of being around for such an amazing experience. When I went through my first heart break, I thought I would never stop crying. My father told me that it's kind of like a balloon filled with helium, if you let a little out at a time, eventually the helium will run out. Corny, but weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning. :) Keep your head up beautiful. His loss, seriously. 

Kr

Krystal • Jul 21, 2015
thank you for that I will try to do my best at keep the baby on my mind

Je

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My twins dad walked out the day we found out we were having twins! 1 baby he could handle but no way could he handle two! You just have to suck it up and soldier on. You have a bab to think of now. My boys are 7 months old, spent 6 weeks in NICU, they are happy and healthy and its all because of me (and the NICU doctors and nurses of course) 

K�

K😌 • Jul 21, 2015
I hate stories like this. Like if you make a baby with someone you care about why tf would you leave them while their pregnant 😡 they are beautiful ! Congrats

Ha

Hanan • Jul 21, 2015
So cute, God bless them

Ni

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I'll be blunt with you like I was when my sister got pregnant, as her boyfriend walked out on her. My bio dad walked out before I was born. If he is not involved there will be questions your child will have.  Growing up as the child in that situation is no fun, and yet... The absence of a terrible father is far better than the presence of one. 

Al

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I am so sorry you are going through this. It's supposed to be one of the happiest times of your life. I really hope you at least have some supportive family members. My son's dad died when I was 6 months pregnant, so please know that you have the strength to do this!  My son is now 14 and I have spent his whe life being the best mom I could possibly be. He is a very sweet and respectful young man. I thank God for him every day

Ta

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I have nothing positive to contribute and I know I can't say anything to make this better...just know you are in a lot of people's thoughts- and I'm so very sorry. :-(

Br

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No problem boo. We've all been heartbroken. It really sucks. It'll get better boo. Good company helps me when I'm down. 

MU

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I am first time pregnant first time mommy I am 18 weeks 1 days today... I am too alone my husband not here with me and it's so hard for me... But InshaAllah he coming to Canada...

Ma

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Hey, no worries. I planned my first baby with her father. He knew we were going to get pregnant, then once I got pregnant, he changed his mind, so he kicked me out of his house. But now my daughter is almost three years old, and I've been raising her all on my own. It's going to be hard, no lie.. But once you see the reward of being a good mom. And you're baby loving you so much, it willAll be worth it. Oh by the way, im pregnant again by a different man. And he will NOT be in my life either. Luck of the draw i guess. Or maybe because God knows im a strong women who is up for the task.

Kr

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Thank you all for the encouragement I will try to be the best mommy I can be and this is my only web of support so I thank you all so much