Negative nancy.

I hate being negative, but I cannot stand someone to tell me to be patient getting pregnant that it'll happen when it's right. This may be true, but it is not what I want to hear coming from someone with 3 kids. It boils my blood. I want to tell them they don't know what I go through with struggling to conceive. They don't feel my heart break every time I get that bfn! I stress even more which isn't good when ttc. I feel like it's hopeless at times. It's very discouraging. It takes an emotional toll on your mind and body. How can the one thing you want the most be the hardest thing to accomplish?! Sorry for the negativity, just a little down today!!