Orgasms during pregnancy

Sort of a rant, I guess. But now that I'm in the second trimester and huge(already), we can't find a sex position that works. So I tried to masturebate, which is already hard to do because I can't lay on my back for to long, and I now have a bump that gets in the way some. I know there's more blood flow and everything so sex is more enjoyable and it's easier to orgasm, but when I get close my uterus tightens up and it hurts so bad I can't. I guess we will just be a sexless couple and I won't orgasm till next year 😂😩😩😩😩  am I the only one, or is anyone else dealing with the sorta same issue?